Life is a journey – but we might not always feel we are in the driver’s seat or even know where we want to travel. Therapy can be a wonderful tour guide, helping you find out more about yourself, this important inner journey, so you find what you need, your body, your mind, and your sense of spirituality, and understand where you want to go, the outer journey. I believe discerning outer voices from inner voices is crucial to arriving at your personal identity, navigating your custom journey, and choosing the best travel companions: those who help you move forward instead of holding you back. 

My own life journey has taught me a few things, and along with my training as a couples therapist, I would love to pass some of these insights along, to be there for you and your partner(s), to turn your experience from a bumpy ride into a rich, exhilarating and sensuous journey. 

I bring a natural curiosity for humans and their struggles, and I love to focus on individuality and identity, particularly when it comes to gender, sensuality, and sexuality. We are all unique, but we are all driven by a general sense of need. I like to use tools like psychodynamic therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family systems therapy, and elements of sex therapy.

My personal journey also took me across continents, as a European/German immigrant, as well as across the gender landscape, as a transman. I have experienced some of the challenges of traveling to unknown territory, how to welcome change, and how to treat each experience as a new lesson for my compass.